There’s been a rise in the interrelationships between bisexual and bi curious women and lesbians. This indeed is a healthy trend, especially when you consider the fact that till recently lesbians viewed bisexuals with suspicion and rarely, if ever, dated them.
Increased Interaction between Lesbians and Bisexuals
Earlier many lesbians considered bi women unworthy of dating. This was so because they incorrectly thought that bi women are promiscuous in general and couldn’t maintain an exclusive relationship. Many even thought that all bi women dig for threesome and would try to push them into it against their wishes.
However, increased awareness about bisexuality and bisexual people has helped squashed these misconceptions. Many famous lesbian celebrities in recent years have also spoken in favor of bisexuals, which too has helped other lesbians overcome their unfounded but deep-rooted fears about bisexuals.
As a result of all these positive developments, dating lesbians if you are bisexual or bi curious is not difficult today.
Tips for dating lesbians
If you are a bisexual or bi-curious and are interested in developing a relationship with a lesbian, you might want to keep the following tips in mind:
- Join a dating site
Online dating sites seriously increase your chances of finding a suitable partner. We recommend you join a premier lesbian or bisexual dating website and take a paid membership, because only paid members enjoy advanced features, access to which is necessary to find interesting people and to get to know them better.
Another thing you must keep in mind is to create a telling profile, in which you must list your sexual orientation as well as the fact that you are interested in a lesbian partner. Don’t forget to upload a few latest pictures of yours, as members with pictures get ten times more viewership than those without.
- Visit lesbian and gay bars
While online dating sites provide a great platform to meet other exciting people, consider visiting lesbian and gay bars too, especially if you are super eager to meet and date new people.
- Be honest
A common worry among lesbians is of their women partners reaching out to men behind their back. On their part, lesbians must understand that bisexuals are not like that. The most important thing for them, just like it is for others, is the person with whom they are in a relationship and not his or her genitals. Also bisexuals are not wired, something that many lesbians think, in a way that they start missing men if they are with a woman or women if they are with a man. The truth is that bisexuals are just as capable of lesbians to commit to a monogamous relationship.
Bisexuals, on the other hand, should be honest with their partners. If they don’t think they can be in a monogamous relationship, they should tell their lesbian partners the same.
- Be open about threesome
If threesome is something that you find exciting and would like your partner to join with you into one, you should be explicit about it, right from the beginning.